Sometimes, your fuckbuddy isn’t around to do the job. This is especially true now, during isolation and quarantine. If you are someone who has that sexual appetite that just isn’t quelling during isolation and are trying to be safe when it comes to sex at the moment, you might want to try some toys on yourself. One of the best toys used to get women off is the dildo. It’s an awesome, close second to the penis when you are in a pinch and something that will definitely get you through until you are able to bang it out with a fuckbuddy again!

 

Dildos are also an awesome way to have some Skype sex or virtual sex. They come in handy while you are dirty talking or typing to your hookup partner over the phone. Sometimes, virtual fuckbuddies are even better than the real deal, especially if you’ve got an awesome vibrator or dildo. Sadly, not everyone knows how to get the most out of their dildo, so we are going to teach you. Whether you are imagining your fuckbuddy from afar or enjoying some awesome virtual fuckbuddy time, you are going to want to know how to properly use this amazing toy!

 

Here are all the tips and tricks when it comes to using a dildo for your personal pleasure…

 

Thrusting
Thrusting is a very common way to use a dildo, and it’s pretty easy! All you need to do is thrust the length of the dildo in and out of your vaginal walls. You can exercise some Kegels against the dildo to amplify the pleasure. This is for people who are into deep penetration! If you tilt the dildo, you’ll be able to reach your g-spot while thrusting. There are also tons of dildos out there that are designed specifically for reaching your g-spot, so no tilting would be required!

 

Rocking
To rock your dildo, all you’ll need to do is place it inside of your vagina as far as it’ll go and rock it back and forth. What you’ll be stimulating in this position is the back of your vaginal walls, which can lend itself to a feeling of being very full. This usually works best with longer and thicker dildos as the sensation is dependent on what is going on once the dildo is already inside rather than the thrusting motion.

 

Dual Stimulation
For the person who loves clitoral stimulation, this is an awesome method. All you need to do is literally let your dildo sit inside your vagina. A vibrating dildo would take this method to the next level. Then, while you are feeling filled up and turned on by your inserted dildo, you can use your hands to masturbate your clitoris at the same time. You might even use a hand to stimulate your nipples as well. Did you know that you can have a nipple orgasm? Imagine having a vaginal, clitoral, and nipple orgasm all at once!

 

Short and sweet
The opening of your vagina is a very sensitive area, and some people like to give it a lot of attention. You can do so by sticking your dildo in just a touch and playing with the vaginal opening and very beginning of your vaginal cavity. You can do light thrusts here or even twist your dildo along the opening.

 

Anally
Dildos are also great for anal use. Just make sure that if you are using a dildo for anal use, that you keep it separate from the toys you use for vaginal use. Store them separately so that there is no cross-contamination. Anal toys are fun because they can be used in addition to vaginal ones!

 

Use a suction dildo if you enjoy the penetration from behind
Suction dildos are amazing if you enjoy the penetration from behind. It’s pretty hard to achieve without a suction dildo, as suction dildos have the ability to stick to vertical surfaces (such as your headboard or shower wall). It’s a hand’s free approach to using a dildo. They also work great if you stick them to the seat of a chair and bounce on top of them…

 

Metal Dildos for Temperature Play
Metal dildos are great for temperature play because they hold temperature very well. It’s fun to experiment with these by running them under either cool or warm water to add the cooled or heated element to your dildo play!

 

During Sex with your Fuckbuddy
When you are ready to bring your fuckbuddy back into your bed, don’t forget your friendly dildo! A dildo is a great toy to bring into the bedroom with your partner! This is the case whether or not your partner has a penis already. Dildos are very fun to have inserted while you are receiving oral sex, or inserted anally while you are enjoying penetrative sex! It’s an added boost to allow for more sensations to be at play while you play with your partner.

 

[Related: Remote Fun With A Fuck Buddy]