Quarantine has been quite rough on the fuckbuddy community. It’s causing people to fear something once held sacred. The fuckbuddy relationship might be on the fritz, but that doesn’t mean that your orgasm should be delayed or gone. There are plenty of ways to have a solo orgasm, and likewise, several ways to enjoy a fuckbuddy from afar. Though you can’t exactly hookup, you can still have virtual sex with your friend-with-benefits. Do this by either engaging in phone sex or saucy sexting messages with your hookup buddy. If you are having trouble finding someone to sext, video chat, or have naughty calls with, you can always do the damn thing all by yourself! The easiest way to orgasm when you’re hanging one-on-one with yourself is via vibrator. Those things are powerful, very fun, and know how to get the job done. There are things you can do to get the most out of your vibrator experience if you are missing those orgasmic hangouts with your former fuckbuddy!

Here are some of the best vibrator tips for mesmerizing masturbation sessions in quarantine!

 

Use Lube
Using lubricant with a vibrator is going to dramatically increase the pleasure you feel while using it. The vagina is extremely sensitive, and sometimes vibrators can feel almost harsh on certain areas (like the clitoris). Lubricant acts as a thin barrier, but also adds the pleasurably slippery and wet sensations, which enhance the experience. Lubricants work well with both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. When buying lube, make sure that you get one that is safe for your body and safe for your toy’s materials. Water-based lubes are very versatile if you are experimenting with various toys.

 

Try Over-The-Undies

Again, some women are extremely sensitive and they want the experience of intense vibrations without the pain associated with too much stimulation. For sensitive people, we suggest using a vibrator over the underwear. Silky underwear works great as it tends to feel less harsh than cotton materials. Vibrators that work best for over-the-panties play are wand vibrators. These vibrators often have the surface area needed to make sure that your clitoris or vaginal opening is stimulated from above-ground.

 

Experiment With Angles

There is no ‘right’ angle or position to place a vibrator. In fact, you can use a vibrator on other parts of the body aside from genitals (side note- try using a vibrator on the nipples for added enjoyment or to produce a nipple orgasm!). Experimentation is going to be your best friend when it comes to masturbation. The best vibrator to experiment in terms of angles are the G-spot vibrators. Some women have never successfully found their own g-spot, so it might take some wiggling around to find it, even with a g-spot vibrator.

 

Use Your Hands for Clitoral Stimulation

For vaginal vibrators or those which insert (like g-spot vibrators or bullet vibrators), you can have fun reaching for both the vaginal and the clitoral orgasm at the same time. You can insert your vaginal vibrator and use your hands to massage your clitoris. Try rocking back and forth against the inserted toy while you work your hands for mind-blowing stimulation.

 

Try Edging
Edging in masturbation is when you stimulate yourself just to the edge of an orgasm and then back off to increase sexual tension. You can use your vibrator when practicing the edging technique. With a wand, you can press the head of the want against your clitoris and back off right before you climax. Continue to do this until you just can’t stand it. For some people (not all, in fact some folks lose their orgasm in the process due to lack of concentration) this can yield multiple orgasms.

 

Let the Rabbit Do the Work
Rabbit vibrators are fantastic because of the dual-stimulation aspect. They really pack a powerful punch and are among the most favorite when it comes to solo sex toys as they both insert and stimulate the clitoris at the same time. Take full advantage of a rabbit vibrator by use it hands-free. You can use your hands to stimulate other parts of the body. Tickle your skin, run your hands around your neck or nipple, or you can use your hands to read some juicy erotica.

 

[Related: Is It Cool To Have a Fuckbuddy In Quarantine]