So you want to have a threesome. Congrats, you’re already a third of the way there! A threesome is an epic sexual adventure between three hot adults. It’s on everyone’s sexual fantasies list. There are no rules to how a threesome should go, but you should always be ready to roll with the punches. That’s what makes threesomes so exciting! You never really know what could happen when you get three naked adults in the same room.

A threesome is on a lot of people’s bucket list, like skydiving or betting a bunch of cash at a casino in Vegas. But threesomes aren’t that crazy or difficult to do. As far as we are concerned, threesomes aren’t bucket list items. They are just something you can enjoy from time to time, and they are always available to you whenever you want to have one. It’s shocking to hear someone say that they want to have a threesome and have never had one. It’s so easy, so why not?

You might be one of those people, wondering how on earth it’ll ever happen. The answer is right in front of you: Fuck sites. And many of these hookup sites are totally free so this isn’t going to cost you anywhere near that trip to Vegas would. You could be a legend and kill two birds with one stone by having a threesome in Vegas. We digress…

Fuck sites make it easy to find threesomes. Read on to find out how you can use a fuck site to get that sweet ménage à trois.

 

Get on the right fuck site

You need to be on the right sex dating website. You are way more likely to find a threesome on a true fuck site than a dating and hookup hybrid app. Hinge is a great example of an adult dating app that is sometimes good for finding a fuckbuddy. It’s not a reliable place to find a threesome. Casual sex sites like Adult Friend Finder  or Ashley Madison are way more likely to bless you with that magical party of 3 because these sites are dedicated to helping you find a fuckbuddy. Tinder is an exception to this rule as we’ve been able to find lots of couples on the app who are down to party.

These apps usually have subcategories to dive into once you are on them. For example, you can search for people by their kink on Adult Friend Finder. If BDSM is something you enjoy, there are plenty of casual sex sites that are geared exclusively towards the BDSM lifestyle. Finding the right fuck site is going to be the first thing you have to do before getting into bed with two strangers.

 

Find your partners

The people you match with on these fuck sites need to be down to have a threesome. You can start your threesome search by filtering by or searching the word ‘threesome’ if the site allows. Most casual sex sites have a search function like this. However, if you are using a swipe app like Tinder, you need to operate your search a little differently.

A couple: Plenty of couples sign up for hookup sites hoping to find a third to add to their bedroom dynamic. It’s the simplest and most reliable way to find a threesome through a casual sex site because these couples are usually very interested and eager to get things started with a perfect stranger.

Selecting individuals: If you can’t find a couple to have a threesome with fast enough, you can try searching for individuals who might be interested. We’d suggest putting something about wanting a threesome in your profile bio so that you only attract people who might be interested. Then, all you need to do is ask your matches if they’d be down to have one. Once you get one partner who is into the idea of a ménage à trois, it’s easier to find the third because you are then both on the hunt!

 

Get the party started

Once you find your threesome partners, it’s time to get the ball rolling. If the three of you have never met before, there might be some awkward jitters that you just want to get out of the way. To do this, you can set up a group message containing the three of you and begin sexting in that message. This will allow everyone to get to know each other before you do meet in person and will set the tone for the rest of the evening.

 

Meeting up

When it’s finally time to meet up, do it in public first. Of course, you’ll want the threesome to happen in a more private setting (unless you’re extremely kinky), but it’s good to get a feel for the partners before you head to a more secluded area to do the deed!

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