Fucking a fuck buddy can be good fun, but what’s also really fun is the foreplay! People tend to underestimate how awesome foreplay can be. A little rub-a-dub-dub before all the action? It’s awesome! That kind of action is also great if, for whatever reason, actually having sex is off the table. Perhaps you want to get all that juicy pleasure by simply fooling around without sex (penetration or oral). And, if you are trying to please a man, a handjob is one of the best forms of that foreplay. But, the truth of the matter is that not everyone is great at giving handjobs. Who is going to be the best at a handjob? Well, it’s going to be the person giving it to himself. There’s no way around the fact that a masturbatory handjob is almost always better than one given by a fuck buddy; however, that does not mean that you can’t become the king or queen of giving the near perfect handjob! First, you’ll want to check out these tips…

 

Use lube!

When people compare handjobs to full on penetration, one of the biggest complaints is the lack of natural wetness produced during the handjob itself. That’s nothing that a little lube won’t fix! Make sure to lube up your hands before you begin to stroke his shaft. If you are both comfortable with it, spit also works as a great lubricant.

 

Be gentle, but firm…

Some people will try to squeeze during a handjob, and most of the time, that’s not so pleasurable. When giving a handjob, you want to keep a firm grip without squeezing. As you move back and forth, you may even loosen your grip a bit. If you put your hand in the shape of a limp claw, you’ll find that a perfect loose but pleasurable grip comes pretty naturally as you stroke it up and down.

 

Ask questions

There’s no shame in asking how your man likes his handjobs! As you are stroking away, go ahead and ask what he likes and dislikes. You can ask him to show you how he masturbates and attempt to mimic his technique! Trust us, it’ll spice up the situation for both you and your guy!

 

Have fun with the balls

Give your man multiple waves of pleasure by playing with his balls as you also play with his penis. You can cup them, or gently use your fingers to massage them. Balls are a nice way to enjoy sex without penetration!

 

Fall into a rhythm

Imagine that giving a handjob is like driving a car. You don’t want to be too jerky, or slam on the breaks out of nowhere. Rather, you’ll want to get into a smooth rhythm so that your partner gets a nice enjoyable ride! Try to figure out the best rhythm that works for you. You don’t need to work extra fast or extra slow. The rhythm will probably come naturally as you move along. And, it’s kosher to mix it up a bit while remaining in a groove. For example, if your partner seems to be approaching the edge, you can step on the gas a little. If you want to tease him, you can slow it down. Just try not to be jerky!

 

Precum is your friend

If you are doing it right, your man is going to ejaculate a little during the process before he releases the mother-load. Take that precum and mix it into the lubricant you are using. It’ll be a big turn on for your guy and add more wetness to the process!

 

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