Your fuckbuddy (also known as your friend with benefits, your sex friend, your lover, your playmate, your booty call, etc.) is someone who is available to you when you need some good, hot sex without any of the emotional baggage or attachment. It’s a fantastic thing for a single person to have in their life, because, let’s face it - we all need to get fucked sometimes. So, how does one get, enjoy, and keep a fuckbuddy around?

Getting the FuckBuddy

Finding a fuckbuddy has not always been easy, which is why BuddyBang was created in the first place! This is a fuck site to find one or many! Once you match with one on BuddyBang, you’ll need to find out if you want this person to be a one-night-stand, a fuckbuddy, or just a pal. It’s something that you’ll know after the two of you meet for the first time. If you meet up and find that you and your fuckbuddy want to meet again… Congratulations! You’ve just found one!

Enjoying the FuckBuddy

Once you have established a fuckbuddy relationship with someone, there are several things you’ll want to keep in mind so that the two of you can enjoy the relationship! At the end of the day, it comes down to these simple rules:

1. Don’t get emotionally attached: This is the NUMBER ONE rule when it comes to enjoying your fuckbuddy relationship. Remember, this is a NSA (no-strings-attached) relationship unless both parties want something more.
2. Experiment: Having one means having someone to experiment with sexually! It’s a time for you to have some non-judgmental fun. Talk about your kinkiest fantasies with them. If they're on board, test it out!
3. Protect yourself: Always meet in public before you meet in a private space for the first time. Additionally, make sure to protect yourself from pregnancy or STD’s.
4. Have an open mind: They are going to want to experiment too. Keep an open mind! You never know what you might be into!
5. Be prepared for when the mood strikes: One awesome thing about having a fuckbuddy is that you can call them at any time for a bang sesh! It’s nice to have some fresh lingerie or deodorant handy in your car or gym bag for when the mood strikes!
6. Be yourself! There’s no need to impress them or feel nervous around one. You should be able to feel totally comfortable as yourself.
7. Be nice: Conversely, you’ll want to allow your them to feel 100% comfortable as well!

Keeping the FuckBuddy

You've got a good thing going. Keep it that way by following these steps:

1. Always be honest: If you find yourself falling for your fuckbuddy, or suspect that they are falling for you, you must address the situation before it gets messy or someone gets hurt.
2. Have multiple fuckbuddies: Don’t rely on one to fulfill intimate desires as it could cause you to develop feelings that you don’t actually want. Keep multiple around!
3. Limit it to the bedroom: In other words, don’t get too friendly with them. Keep it about sex. How you do this is up to you; however, we suggest that you don’t introduce them to your friends or family, don’t buy them gifts, and don’t text them about anything other than sex.
4. Don’t double text: Having a fuckbuddy means having someone to text at any time, 24/7, day and night, when you want to bang. But, if they aren't in the mood or they don't answer you, don’t double text. Remember, this is an emotionally-void relationship. They don't owe you anything, so don’t drive them away by not respecting the #1 rule (don’t get emotionally attached)!